tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post1869925051755461129..comments2023-05-16T05:03:47.625-07:00Comments on See What You Made Me do!!!: Open your eyesseamstresshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11237668305207207724noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-49367396577702458092009-07-03T14:50:26.824-07:002009-07-03T14:50:26.824-07:00Gosh...Would it not be better to be single and alo...Gosh...Would it not be better to be single and alone rather than coming home every night to a man that makes you feel like that...Lady Xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05905725300292828816noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-91841624927304634752009-04-09T01:30:00.000-07:002009-04-09T01:30:00.000-07:00I wonder why some men cheat when they have such ki...I wonder why some men cheat when they have such kind,loving wives???<BR/>Maybe its true that some just prefer bitchy wives...<BR/>Sorry about your ex and I hope your friend will be fine when she eventually finds out.....Speshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14124573976572138151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-17928842579116189262009-04-06T17:42:00.000-07:002009-04-06T17:42:00.000-07:00helloooooooooooooooooooooo!hope u r ok?helloooooooooooooooooooooo!<BR/><BR/>hope u r ok?Buttercuphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00182390815082496865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-39398153912609844362009-04-03T07:56:00.000-07:002009-04-03T07:56:00.000-07:00I guess i might not be the best person to give adv...I guess i might not be the best person to give advice;i understand it all and its only God that can do it.Some of us are not fighters and accept whatever life throws at us.Nijawifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02236225288097880343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-20049427359605754102009-04-01T11:52:00.000-07:002009-04-01T11:52:00.000-07:00Damn!Whatever happened to 'mutual respect', yeah i...Damn!<BR/>Whatever happened to 'mutual respect', yeah i'm kinda old skool and still believe the guy heads the house (every org needs a CEO) but mutual respect is the watch word.<BR/>"I spoil you, you spoil me, we spoil each other. SIMPLE"<BR/>Nice move not telling ur friend, however, if i were you...I'd orchestrate things so she finds out for herself.<BR/>Hiss..crazy to think of good fellas who'd give half their dick to have a devoted wife. <BR/>Just kidding...cant think of any who'd do that<BR/>:-)ManCeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15081251904710795616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-46539292951072858422009-04-01T04:47:00.000-07:002009-04-01T04:47:00.000-07:00i am with writefreak on this...sorry to hear about...i am with writefreak on this...<BR/><BR/>sorry to hear about the cheating boyfy...alotedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17293074684237435820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-61309850686111037242009-03-28T20:26:00.000-07:002009-03-28T20:26:00.000-07:00Ah... I have a similar case on my advice label on ...Ah... I have a similar case on my advice label on my blog. She need to stand up and fight it b4 it get worse. Confrontation is the key. I still don't understand why women choosed to suffer in silence than work on confronting issues like this. She honestly don't deserve this.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09411168029384140846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-78486084977078140752009-03-16T16:02:00.000-07:002009-03-16T16:02:00.000-07:00Whoaw...well dont u think she knows already? mayb ...Whoaw...<BR/><BR/>well dont u think she knows already? mayb shes just ignoring it, u know.. turning a blind eye..teebayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14453972516559620591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-13597234882905253722009-03-14T10:28:00.000-07:002009-03-14T10:28:00.000-07:00Wanting to save her marriage isn't wrong, infact, ...Wanting to save her marriage isn't wrong, infact, it's what is expected of her. But she shouldn't be turning a blind eye to the issues in her marriage. No woman should be a doormat, she's made herself one! Girlfriend needs to step up and talk to her man...not keep taking thrash!<BR/><BR/>And most importantly, she needs to take these issues to God in prayers!Writefreakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03457464940195376970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-59163972520174837472009-03-12T09:20:00.000-07:002009-03-12T09:20:00.000-07:00I don't believe she should not be told. I don't un...I don't believe she should not be told. I don't understand why people play with fire and accept not to get burned. If it was me and I knew husband and wife I will tell. I think it is my duty to.<BR/><BR/>The dude must look like he came out of GQ. If some women did not fall for these men they'd go back to their wives or DIY for the rest of their lives even if she was a size 1 million. No woman should be made to endure this, that's why the bull should be taken by the horn. He should make the choice and stop thinking he is getting away with it.Chookzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06081622290571986398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-91826285153867930512009-03-08T14:21:00.000-07:002009-03-08T14:21:00.000-07:00Na wa. That is why i say we women should be very c...Na wa. That is why i say we women should be very careful of how we brag about your men out there because human beings get as them be!<BR/><BR/>I pray she finds out soon. This is sad!Nice Anonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11821297787183068066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-65528595217345798112009-03-07T15:11:00.000-08:002009-03-07T15:11:00.000-08:00People will only treat you the way you let them tr...People will only treat you the way you let them treat you<BR/>he wouldnt do all those things if he knew he would not get away with itMiss Definitely Maybehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02812755876909158625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-7877503595781025162009-03-07T10:49:00.000-08:002009-03-07T10:49:00.000-08:00ooh i wish i had a hawt coffee man....oh welli am ...ooh i wish i had a hawt coffee man....oh well<BR/><BR/>i am a crybaby so this story kinda made my eyes do that thing where they sting a bit and you're tryna hold back...makes me so cautious about the whole marriage thing..but my wahala lies here..is it that people go ahead to marry people so visibly not right for them, or do they just poof and change one day after the wedding? it is soooo not fair how your friend is getting treated..nobody deserves that, especially from a spouse!! and she isn't even up to confronting him for anything, she just takes it...not fair!!<BR/><BR/>LOL at the wish for your ex!!!theicequeenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10376204756356613951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-49350734668538962902009-03-07T06:44:00.000-08:002009-03-07T06:44:00.000-08:00sometimes i think i would never get married.sometimes i think i would never get married.Chiamakahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04410209040818503094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-32245358926950091132009-03-07T06:26:00.000-08:002009-03-07T06:26:00.000-08:00Sorry about the cheating boyfriend.:(Sorry about the cheating boyfriend.:(..https://www.blogger.com/profile/12432017517711491089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-42970972729206883192009-03-07T06:24:00.000-08:002009-03-07T06:24:00.000-08:00I believe cheating should never be tolerated,be it...I believe cheating should never be tolerated,be it a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship,or something as serious and life changing as a marriage.<BR/>But i have a friend who is really older than me,and one would expect wiser.she is going through the same thing,i would love to share,but it's quite a story.<BR/>I agree with standtall all the way,but you should pray with and for her.Please do keep us up-to-date on this.<BR/>Goodluck tapping the coffee man's bom-bom.<BR/><BR/>I told you i'b be back.lol..https://www.blogger.com/profile/12432017517711491089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-86692878680669828272009-03-07T05:48:00.000-08:002009-03-07T05:48:00.000-08:00She should plan on leaving and have a life. She is...She should plan on leaving and have a life. She is taking all these shits but there will be a time she wont be able to anymore. And if she loses it, it will be disastrous!<BR/><BR/>I wont tell her to pray or to wait till he changes... She needs out!The Activisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10208721217617791119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-53152338457350618612009-03-06T06:31:00.000-08:002009-03-06T06:31:00.000-08:00Ok first of all why on Earth did you have to dedic...Ok first of all why on Earth did you have to dedicate the update about the coffe man's ass to me? Huh???!!!! Seamstress??!!!!!!!<BR/><BR/>LOL!<BR/><BR/>But really, that's a testy situation (your friend I mean, not the coffee mans butt). If it were her boyfriend I woulda said you had a duty to sabotage the relationship, but as it is....man this is really testy. I hope it works out well for her sha, 'cos if they break up, I think she'll leave feeling less confident about herself. So sad...<BR/><BR/>WELCOME BAAAAAAAAAACK!!!doughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13924234601037988218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-14424799757467542142009-03-05T16:47:00.000-08:002009-03-05T16:47:00.000-08:00How are u guys so sure that she doesnt know.How are u guys so sure that she doesnt know.bumighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16921134538404613210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-23299608051940019982009-03-05T14:13:00.000-08:002009-03-05T14:13:00.000-08:00hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmMercy mercy! I have a question ...hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm<BR/>Mercy mercy! <BR/>I have a question for you, were there any signs before the marriage? Is there anything at all wrong with her? please be honest because this your story is bugging me big time! I feel so bad for her and gosh wish I could have a conversation with her husband. <BR/>Another question - did you tap da ass?!!!!!!!<BR/>You have to tell me!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-74075170739856323402009-03-05T07:24:00.000-08:002009-03-05T07:24:00.000-08:00*sigh.....I hate hearing stuff like this, that's w...*sigh.....I hate hearing stuff like this, that's why I believe in taking my time when it comes to choosing a life partner.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes things are good for a while and then they begin to hate each other...I never unterstand how that happens..oh well..I wish her the best.<BR/><BR/>And take your eyes off the coffee boy!!!!~Sirius~https://www.blogger.com/profile/14771610618431377950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-92016428670137163452009-03-05T06:23:00.000-08:002009-03-05T06:23:00.000-08:00I never stop to wonder "how couples get to that po...I never stop to wonder "how couples get to that point"...this looks like a scene from "why did I get married"...what will make a man who claimed from the get go to love you start to disrespect you?....honestly I really wonder! I wish I could castrate this man and set his behind on fire!...but I guess I can't...please try to encourage her to be her own woman...and not rely on the dadgum guy for anything least of all "happiness"...no women deserves to be treated that way...why do we love blindly sef?...truth is...it can happen to anybody...may it not be us!NoLimithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03879937849991946112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-4768466405200167542009-03-05T06:20:00.000-08:002009-03-05T06:20:00.000-08:00It is all good that she wants to save her marriage...It is all good that she wants to save her marriage, but NOT facing him squarely and bringing up these issues will only kill the marriage more. She needs to stand up to him and not just stay there doing all the washing and cleaning and receiving all the abuses.<BR/><BR/>What can I say? It's hard to say what to do when you're not in it. I pray things turn out better for her, and that happiness will come to her.Jennifer A.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06618639466963813761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-67369906790460677702009-03-05T06:12:00.000-08:002009-03-05T06:12:00.000-08:00My heart actually started hurting from reading thi...My heart actually started hurting from reading this post, poor lady. What to do? That guy is playing with fire and just doesn't know it.CaramelDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11522210227708538405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5490554508530036586.post-79558455820664702142009-03-05T03:45:00.000-08:002009-03-05T03:45:00.000-08:00Me First!!...Nice blog hereI feel sorry for ur fri...Me First!!...Nice blog here<BR/><BR/>I feel sorry for ur friend. Nobody deserves to be mistreated or denigrated like that. If u can't tell her about her hussy's evil doings then maybe u shld start praying for her & her marriage for....it'd helpBeulah!https://www.blogger.com/profile/13253476795544978424noreply@blogger.com